You know what’s hard…
Going to work and being treated with kindness.
Being appreciated for the hard work you put in.
Knowing you’re being paid fairly for the value you bring.
Having people empower you rather than manipulate you.
Feeling safe and living in a home where there’s peace.
In a home where you’re encouraged to grow rather than criticised.
Having adults in your life who exhibit maturity and responsibility.
Having people in your life who make you feel at peace.
Having people in your life who celebrate your victories.
Having people in your life who speak life over you.
Feeling safe enough to sleep through the whole night.
Feeling comfortable enough to relax when your back’s turned to others.
Feeling secure in the knowledge that the people you love are there for the long haul.
Walking through each day not being clouded by the expectations of the worst.
Letting go of overthinking.
Being able to express yourself honestly.
Knowing your words will be heard.
Having your emotional needs met without judgment or rejection.
Enjoying a meal without the fear that someone’s mood will disrupt it.
Cooking and sharing a meal without worrying about the complaints.
Feeling valued and appreciated in the spaces you inhabit.
Living a life where you don’t have to apologise for being yourself.
Hearing someone say “I love you” and knowing they truly mean it.
Knowing you’ll be supported and not reprimanded when you share about your bad day.
Living a life full of hope, knowing that the next moment can be better than the last.
I know how hard it is to expect these things when our minds are so used to the opposite as I’m still learning how to embrace these things myself. Some days, I feel like I’m miles away from this peace. But I know, when you and I begin to release our hurts and embrace what’s possible, we will be amazed at how free we feel.
This, my friend, is the definition of healing. And it’s waiting for both you and me.
If you’d like to share your journey, I’d love to hear your story. My emails are always open and so is my comment section.
Many Blessings, Grace. Xx
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